How To Attract Your Soulmate — Introduction

Following a life-long leaning toward all things metaphysical, I began my career as a professional psychic and spiritual life coach from my home in Laguna Beach in 1999. I immediately fell in love with the work and business flourished.

I found that by far the top concern for most of my clients was in the area of relationship. Their age, or station in life made no difference.  It was the one area that could really put them “through the wringer”.

Many of them were enmeshed in relationships which were obviously not destined for success, but they had lost their ability to be objective, or the confidence to move on.

The more time they spent in their situation, the more bogged down and confused they became. Their self esteem would take a beating, as they gave and gave and got less and less in return. By the time they contacted me, they had serious doubt that they would ever be happy again, let alone in a “soulmate” relationship!

I have always tended to attract a high quality level of clientele, so keep in mind that the vast majority of these callers were perfectly normal, functioning, caring people, who wanted nothing more than to find a way to be loved, appreciated, and valued for who they were.

My guides always strongly encourage people to finish or resolve whatever relationship they are in before attempting to begin something new. Spirit is adamant that no one has any business embarking on “the soulmate technique” if they are still in some sort of relationship. The reasons for this would seem to be obvious, but it is something which I have seen many struggle with.  This is due to the “fear factor”, which is discussed early on herein, as well as how to conquer it, so that you may now move forward with success in all aspects of life!

If you are already really, truly, single, and would like to meet your true soulmate, then spirit would say, “The time is now.” Instead of bemoaning your current status, thank your lucky stars, because this means you are free to start the technique as soon as you like! It is an exciting, exhilarating process that will bring immeasurable joy and prosperity to your life!

Can you even begin to imagine what a difference it will make in your life to have a real, live, soulmate to go through life with? What would it be like if you had someone to share your thoughts and experiences with?  Would it make a difference if you had an awakened, supportive, spiritual partner who would stand by you through life’s trials and tribulations?  Can you imagine having a partner who supported your endeavors and shared your interests? Imagine having someone who appreciated and valued your opinions and feelings.

This is what my work is about. Your primary relationship is not meant to be a never ending story of struggle and discontent. We are ideally meant to choose partners that support us, not make things harder. This basic, seemingly self-evident statement, is something that seems to elude many.  It has been so very long since they had this, if indeed they ever did. Now is the time to release the limiting doubts and fears that keep your dreams out of reach!  Spirit and I are here to stand by you on your journey.

This book, like my readings, is from spirit, so it is not simply my opinion that is being expressed, (although I do agree with them!)  Writing from a channeled perspective is convenient in that it allows my personality and personal opinions to get out of my way.

You will find my channeled work different from much channeled material out there, in that mine tends, somewhat ironically I suppose, to be “down to earth.” I have read much channeled work myself, and I have noticed that much of what is out there tends to be rather vague, while attempting to reassure us that all sorts of wonderful things are just around the corner!

That’s great, and I sincerely hope that’s so, but a lot of that sort of channeled work has been basically saying the same thing for decades. My sentiments with this type of channeled material is, “Okay, far out, but I don’t have any more answers now than I did before!” I don’t have any issue with these channels and their messages, I’m just giving you heads up that that’s not what this is. If you enjoy that sort of work, “Okay, that’s fine with us”, as my guides would say!  There’s plenty of it out there.

My clients want help now. They want and need to take back their lives and step into their own power, so that they can manifest the lives they dream of. This is the group that my guides, which I refer to collectively as “spirit” and I address. This is my calling, my spiritual purpose, and I am living it, humbly at your service.  I am here as a bridge for those who may or may not have any understanding of metaphysics and “all that psychic stuff”. Anything spirit touches on herein, which they feel may need explaining, they explain, easily and concisely.

This is the nuts and bolts primer for how to attract your soulmate. Anyone that can follow a few simple steps can do this, it’s really that easy.